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love your kink.

I teach people how to better understand and express their kinky desires without shame, and empower them with the language and skills necessary to negotiate loving and lasting kink-positive relationships.

Whether you’re just coming to terms with your own interest in kink, want to communicate better with your partner(s), or are looking to bring a new level of intensity and intimacy to your sex life, I can provide you with the tools and techniques necessary to navigate the tricky terrain of alternative sexuality.

My Kink Counseling clients include individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships who are committed to their self-care and authentic sexual expression, and interested in bringing a sense of playfulness and adventure to their erotic lives. Many of the people I work with describe deeply held, life-long fetishes and fantasies that they’ve struggled to share with a partner, others describe stepping toward BDSM to meet the needs of someone they love, while still others are simply curious, adventurous, or inspired by pop culture or literature.

My work is informed by my training, including both Master's and Doctorate degrees in Clinical Psychology with a post-doctoral specialty in forensics working with sexual behavior problems, as well as 20 years of experience in the fields of professional BDSM and sex education.

how does it work?

Kink Counseling is an opportunity to discuss your curiosities, concerns, and questions about consensual BDSM (bondage, discipline, sado-masochism) in a private and confidential setting. It is designed to help individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships develop a positive connection to their desire, as well as the skills and resources necessary to manifest a healthy expression of this desire in solo and interpersonal play. 

Kink Counseling is goal-oriented and strategy-focused: My aim is to listen carefully to your current situation and work with you collaboratively on here-and-now solutions to your kink concerns. Kink Counseling is client-centered: Appointments are made at intervals that suit your needs and schedule, and may be short- or long-term depending on your preferences. 

Kink Counseling sessions are typically one hour in length (although 30 and 90 minute sessions are available), and are scheduled with advance notice. I host in-person appointments in the drawing room of Maison de la Maitresse, San Francisco's premiere boutique dungeon located near the historic Castro district. I am also available by telephone, Skype, FaceTime, and Google Hangouts.

this isn't your typical therapy.

In fact, it's important to note that this is not licensed psychotherapy, and is not intended to diagnose or treat any mental illness as designated by the American Psychiatric Association. More questions about this? Visit my FAQ page.

areas of focus include:

Coming out to your partner or family

BDSM 101 – learning the ropes and language of kink to build confidence and get what you want

BDSM skills training – from fundamentals to advanced techniques

Power Concordant relationships – learning how to meet needs in two-top or two-bottom relationships

Expertise Discordant relationships – communication skills and confidence building for novice tops and bottoms whose partner(s) have more experience

Power fluid relationships – making the most of your versatility

Lifestyle, 24/7, collaring, contracts, and M/s relationships
Creating ethical, successful non-monogamy, polyamory, and multipartner relationships

Trauma and recovery, including healing from sexual shame

Access and accommodation for kink with disability **

Dominant entitlement training for women

Cross dressing and gender manipulation

Gender fluidity, gender nonconformity, and transgender identities


Fetishism

AB/DL (adult baby and diaper lover)






Ethical sadomasochism – including  playing from a social justice perspective and bringing anti-oppression principles into your play

Skills training and professional development for Pro Dommes

Becoming a kink aware professional – consultation for health care, legal, and law enforcement professionals


** Accessibility Note: For in-person meetings, la Maison is located up 1/2 flight of stairs and is a low-scent but not scent free environment.
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